Testimonials & Love Letters

We’ve been overwhelmed by the feedback on Coming Out Better so far! We’re so happy that people are already making great use of the membership – and there’s even more good stuff to come in the future!

We know that this model works because we have been helping women come out later in life since 2015. We’ve helped over 1500 women worldwide on their coming out journeys.

Here’s what one woman had to say about our support & guidance:

“From my first Google search in late summer 2016 to finding Andrea’s blog, and holding my breath after I sent my intro email to get into the support group. From being accepted and seeing that there were actually so many other women out there whose stories were similar to mine. From developing a deep and sustaining connection with the first real bestie of my life in the UK, to developing friendships with women in California, Arizona, Connecticut, Missouri, Ireland, the East Coast, the South, Africa, Holland, Australia, Canada. From divorcing a man to buying a home and furnishing it, to navigating the emotional upheaval of making a total life change that would deeply affect and influence the trajectory of 4 other lives besides my own. From falling in love with a woman for the first time and then losing that love. 

Through all of these things I had the wise and kind counsel of Andrea, Rachel and all of my new friends. I learned from the advice of others & from the support I gave. I loved sharing laughs and joy with hundreds of women who just got it. This support group has been my lifeline, and Andrea & Rachel’s leadership have kept it an affirming and supportive space like no other group I’ve ever been a part of. I would not be who I am without these women. I would not have found the courage without this group. I found happiness in these connections and I learned how big my heart could be once it was opened.”

-Stephanie M.

Sound good? Well it’s not too late to become a Founding Member! Just click to join us at Coming Out Better!

We’ll be closing the doors to Founding Members on Friday, June 28, so don’t miss out on the deep discounts, the stellar support, and all the fun.

See you on the inside!


Andrea & Rachel

P.S. If you have any questions about the membership, just send us an email to: latelifelesbian@gmail.com and let us know. We’re standing by to answer any questions you have!

Coming Out Better

Hello, it’s been a minute since I’ve posted here! We’ve been busy growing the most supportive and kindest community for women coming out later in life in the whole world. Truly, these women inspire me on the daily!

We started this group of about 50 women in January 2016, and now it’s grown to over 1500 women worldwide 3 years later. Crazy awesome! We’ve had IRL meetups and conferences, so many brave posts and in-depth discussions.

And now we are ready to take this to the next level. Because we know that there aren’t many resources for women coming out later in life. And we keep hearing the same thing over and over again: “We need more spaces like this–safe spaces to be vulnerable, to find community, and to get resources.”

So, we are rolling out our newest membership project: Coming Out Better, a place for women coming out later in life. We are still in the beta stages, but here’s what we know that this membership will most definitely include:

  • the most supportive community you can imagine (and it will still be a private place for those who are still in the coming out process and need secrecy)
  • detailed resources to help you get to where you want to be on your coming out journey
  • focused coaching & group interaction to help you with accountability
  • if you join us in the first launch, you’ll be a FOUNDING MEMBER, and you’ll get the lowest price for membership that we’ll ever offer locked in for as long as you stay with us
  • a chance to co-create this group and make it exactly what you need to get to where you want to go on your journey
  • lots and lots of love from us, Andrea and Rachel

If you are interested in getting on our email list to get more information about when we’ll be launching the membership, here is the signup link: https://mailchi.mp/43e6cf597b50/comingoutbetter
You will be first in line when the membership opens early next month if you’re on the list!

Listen, I understand where you are. I’ve been there myself. Eight years ago, I was wondering if I was the only person ever to have come out after being married to a man (actually, two different marriages to two men). I thought I would never figure out how to do this coming out thing. I thought I would never find my soulmate, let alone marry her! (Dear Reader, I did indeed marry her!). And now, I’m living my authentically gay life as an out lesbian, and I’ve never been happier.

So, join us to find out how you can jumpstart your coming out process! We can’t wait to create this group with you!